The Beauty of Obedience

Intimacy matures when love moves from listening to following.

Brandi Roubique

11/16/20253 min read

Key Scriptures
  • John 14:15 (AMP)“If you [really] love Me, you will keep and obey My commandments.”

  • 1 Samuel 15:22 (AMP)“Has the Lord as great a delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed [is better] than the fat of rams.”

  • James 1:22 (TPT)“Don’t just listen to the Word of Truth and not respond to it, for that is the essence of self-deception. So always let His Word become like poetry written and fulfilled by your life!”

Obedience is the truest test of intimacy. It’s not about legalism or performance — it’s about love. Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will obey Me.” He didn’t say, “If you fear Me” or “If you want to impress Me.” He said, “If you love Me.”

That means obedience is the fruit of intimacy, not a substitute for it. When you truly know His heart, you stop seeing His instructions as restrictions and start recognizing them as protection. His commands are not burdens — they’re boundaries of love.

In 1 Samuel 15, Saul lost his position because he chose partial obedience. He followed God’s command almost completely, but held back what seemed logical in his own eyes. That’s the danger of half-surrender: it looks holy, but it still resists the voice of the Spirit. Obedience that delays or dilutes is still disobedience.

But here’s the beauty—God doesn’t call you to perfection in performance, He calls you to perfection in posture. The obedient heart says, “Yes, Lord,” even when it doesn’t understand the outcome. It trusts that the One who gives the instruction also carries the outcome.

Obedience is costly because it requires trust. It often means walking before you see. It means letting go before you know what’s next. Abraham obeyed when God said, “Go to a land I will show you,” not a land He had shown him. His obedience unlocked destiny—not just for himself, but for generations.

When you obey in love, your yes becomes oil. Heaven recognizes it. Every act of obedience—no matter how small—releases fragrance into the spiritual atmosphere. It’s your way of saying, “I choose You over me.”

And in return, God reveals Himself more deeply. Obedience becomes the bridge between hearing His whisper and walking in His power. The secret place trains you to listen, but obedience proves that you’ve heard. It’s where revelation becomes reality.

Don’t fear obedience, beloved. Fear living outside His will. You’ll never lose by saying yes to God—only gain the deeper revelation of His heart. The beauty of obedience is that it keeps intimacy alive. Each act of surrender draws you closer, teaches you trust, and transforms your life into a love story that pleases Him.

Reflection & Journaling Prompts
  1. What areas of my life have I obeyed partially but not fully?

  2. When has obedience led me to unexpected blessing or deeper intimacy?

  3. What keeps me from saying yes immediately when God speaks?

  4. How can I practice instant, joyful obedience instead of delayed obedience rooted in fear?

Declarations / Activation

Declarations:

  • My obedience is an expression of my love, not an attempt to earn His approval.

  • I trust the voice of God, even when I don’t see the full picture.

  • I will not delay my yes; I will move when He moves.

  • Obedience unlocks intimacy, favor, and revelation in my life.

Activation:

Ask the Holy Spirit if there’s any unfinished “yes” He’s waiting for. Write it down. Then, in faith, choose one step toward obedience today—make the call, forgive the person, give the gift, release the plan, begin the project. Remember: your small yes carries eternal weight.

Closing Prayer

Father, thank You for reminding me that obedience is love in action. Forgive me for every delayed or partial yes. I trust that Your ways are good, even when I can’t see the outcome. Strengthen my heart to obey without hesitation, to follow Your leading with joy, and to surrender with faith. May every act of obedience draw me deeper into Your heart and reflect the beauty of my love for You. In Jesus’ name, amen.